STEP’s TO A GlORIOUS RELATIONSHIP/COURTSHIP
Relationship and Courtship.
When thinking of a relationship. Three things are the first thing to start with.
P. P. W
P. Stands for prayer.
P. Stands for the plan.
W. Stands for Waiting.
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Steps To A Glorious Relationship and Courtship
1- PRAYER
Jer 29:13
You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. NIV
Step one requires you to pray. Prayer is a spiritual exercise through which you communicate with your creator.
The importance of prayer before you dabble or begin a relationship is to start with God. The foundation of every good and lasting thing begins and it ends with God.
Seeking the face of God before your relationship is as well as inviting God into your relationship which will be the best guidance the processor of that relationship.
You need to start your relationship with God. Even if you didn’t grow up, nor familiar or reference God before, but when it comes to starting a relationship one thing you should also bear in mind is, the relationship is not about you alone, it’s between two different people coming together.
In other words, starting a relationship is as well as starting another chapter of life outside the one your parents/guidance has given you. This is an issue that you shouldn’t joke with, the moment you toy with any important chapter of your life if care is not taken, you automatically tie down to the negative result from it.
However, Relationships should be built on a spiritual foundation. Although with your physical eyes you behold the person you want to start or spend the next, or better still, the rest of your life with. This’s why I call it the new chapter of your life. You both must act wisely and first seeking God’s face.
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Start your relationship with God. Use your relationship to start a relationship with God. It is much better to start with Him. Do a background check of your life. Which has to do with your family background.
The family trend and the pattern of how marital life has been in your family, then you begin by asking yourself a 
question. This question must be between you and your creator, while doing this, be honest with yourself if you honestly love yourself and you truly want to have a blessful , a peaceful, and a successful relationship that will lead to a joyous marriage, and also a marriage that will produce bless children, couple with a home that shows forth God’s glory and shines forth. Do ask yourself a question like this.
- Who will be in charge of my relationship now, in my marriage/ home?
- Who am I?
- Who were my parents?
- What type of life has my parents live?
- Can I honestly and truthfully enough to say I want the same marriage as that of my parents?
- Are my parents a good example for me, to emulate in my relationship/courtship as well as marriage?
- How many of us did my parents gave birth to, and how many have married or has a successful marriage? This is the issue of the family pattern mentioned earlier.
- How was I raised by my parents/guidance? This is talking about your brought up
- Where was I born, and how did I raise?
- What type of man/woman do I want to be in this relationship and eventually in marriage?
- Do I want to start with a third-party relationship, then grow to build a third party marriage /home?
- Am I going to live a life of self, and myself alone, even when I am married? etc.
There are questions to be asked.
The bible says in Psalm 11:13 if the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do?
This is a question that has an answer. The answer to this question is very simple. And it’s also lie in your hands. Yet, it’s a choice action. And the answer is there for you.
This is possible if God is already at the beginning and at the centre of your relationship. Doing this will surely make your home, your family to continually witness, and to experience God’s presence in many, and in every situation regardless of what might happen. You will always overcome and be victorious.
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The reason why many failed in marriage or why many ended up in a wrong marriage is because they didn’t do what they ought to do at the beginning. They left God behind in the foundation of their relationship/courtship.
If by one reason or the other, you’ve missed this, by not include God at the beginning of your relationship/courtship. you can still mend it with Him. for the steps to be taken do not hesitate to contact us.
Remember, a good and successful marriage is possible, if and when we try to do the needful which is building our union on Holy and Godly foundation.
